Get down on your hands and knees and spread your legs apart so your partner can penetrate you from behind. And men (or ‘bottom’), it gives you full control to touch and tease your partner while they try to control other things.” Women (or ‘top’), it gives you control on top for speed and penetration. “This gives control to both of you, but with different aspects. “This position has excellent clitoral access, and it’s great for G-spot stimulation,” psychotherapist and therapeutic relationship coach Rachel Wright tells SheKnows. Their partner kneels over their lap and starts hugging them with their thighs as the vagina-owner starts to lower themselves down. The rocking horse position is when the person who is penetrating sits cross-legged and leans back, either on a wall or supporting themselves with their hands. Bonus: It also allows for easy clitoral access, so use hands or bring a vibrator into the mix. This position allows for deep, hands-free penetration and the perfect angle to hit the front wall of the vagina where the G-spot is. Bring your knees up slightly and have them enter you from behind.

Lie on your side and have the penetrating partner be the big spoon. The person with the penis can lie back and enjoy their partner riding them. This position allows the partner being penetrated to control the action and move their body as they please, essentially using the penis as a sex toy.

Straddle them and lower yourself down and onto them. This works best against a wall, headboard or other hard surfaces.

Have your penetrating partner sit at a 45-degree angle. Here are six positions that encourage just the right angle, depth and control for mind-blowing G-spot orgasms.Ī version of this story was published October 2018. Sex isn’t a by-the-manual thing and it trying out a position from the Internet only really works when you’re willing to communicate and modify to make it perfect for you and your partner(s). In many cases, this allows for a hands-free situation for their partner, so let those hands wander.Īs with all sex and sexual positions, be sure to give your partner plenty of feedback so you can figure out what feels best. The great thing about sex that hits the G-spot is that, in most positions, it allows the vagina-haver to control the depth and speed of penetration (because everyone’s tastes differ!). Plus you can always use toys to supplement the experience in a really mind-blowing way. If you’re interested in trying to see if you can squirt or really like the feeling of penetration, these positions will totally be your vibe. For instance, many notice no difference in sensation one way or the other, and about 10 percent ejaculate when their G-spots are stimulated. According to Planned Parenthood, though all people with a vagina have this tissue, it doesn’t work for everyone in exactly the same way.

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